Empowering the Individual

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The not-so-recent problem facing American society is that of group identity. The group identity movement has put forth a showing strong in numbers in the past few years, but make no mistake, this infectious and virulent ideology has been nesting among Americans for decades. It originated subconsciously, ultimately reaching the conscious, as many subconscious notions eventually do. From there, the presence of an opposition- those supporting the idea of the individual- has produced an anger masked as justice. Hence the phrase “social justice warrior”.

Now, ironically, it is those who are not oppressed in any regards who are “stepping up” to speak on behalf of the oppressed, coincidentally looping themselves in with groups of “lower class”. We now see university students, even, and especially, from top universities speaking out on behalf of their oppression, which is usually imposed upon them by the top 1%. As if the success of those at the top of the economic totem pole is taking away the rights of Ivy League students. The fact that it is these students at the forefront of the group identity movement is baffling, as it is these same students who not only have more rights than anyone who has ever lived, but are set up to become a part of that top 1% they are so offended by. It’s not opinion that students at the best universities in the world (which is a lot of universities and a lot of students) are being offered success on silver platter, the only cost of accepting it being hard work and sacrifice of a degree much less than what is required of those in other positions. We absolutely know that a strong educational resume reciprocates.

The mission of this post-modern movement is to create a society, and probably a government too, that allows for no achievement unless it is for the benefit of the group. The individual is to be relegated to a foot-soldier simply marking time unless they adopt this ideology of universal equity (equality of outcome). After all, to the holders of this ideology, it is the achievement of the group that will trickle down to the individual. However, we know that this is not true. This ideology has been tried many times throughout history, including in the 20th century.

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson expresses the 20th century examples of this implementation in a 2017 New Year’s letter:

A close reading of 20th century history indicates, as nothing else can, the horrors that accompany loss of faith in the idea of the individual. It is only the individual, after all, who suffers. The group does not suffer – only those who compose it. Thus, the reality of the individual must be regarded as primary if suffering is to be regarded seriously. Without such regard, there can be no motivation to reduce suffering and, therefore, no respite. Instead, the production of individual suffering can and has and will be again rationalized and justified for its supposed benefits for the future and the group.

As Peterson mentions, the alleged group achievement not only has no positive impact on the individual level, but metaphorically and possibly literally kills the individual. If group identity is universally implemented, those who speak out and attempt any individual achievement have and will be vilified and socially and legally punished, because this achievement is viewed as some sort of “privilege” or oppressive to others.

Group identity roots itself in assigning people levels of oppression, which has become a competition of who is the most oppressed. Then a few who’ve deemed themselves leaders speak on behalf of all who have been assigned a level of oppression, even though many never asked, nor want to be part of such a group. Levels of oppression include race, sex/gender, health, wealth, education, and so much more. The damn shame of it all is that those who fit in one or a combination of these domains, yet refuse to accept this post-modern way thinking, are ignored- just as the sound and peaceful cohort (majority, in many cases) has been before.

At the bottom of this issue is the demand for more rights, rather than the adoption of necessary responsibility. The post-modernists have, and will continue, to demand more rights, even though they have more rights than anyone who has ever lived- all-the-while making sure to have no gratitude towards the sacrifices made by their predecessors that led to the rights they have and use today. They demand the right to “safe spaces”, they demand the right to equality of outcome in all domains, and they demand the right to not be offended, which is perhaps the most abhorrent of all their demands. Additionally, they understand and rejoice in the fact that these rights, if given, come at the expense of those who do not meet their criteria for oppression- which usually ends up being well-off white males.

Make no mistake, I am not denying the existence of suffering, and I am definitely not denying that some people suffer more than others. Suffering in any capacity is tragic, but it is a part of life. The antidote to this post-modern ideology seems to be something like recognizing yours and others’ suffering, not blaming it on anyone else, and most importantly, carrying that suffering. Recognize it as responsibility, accept that responsibility, and then try to reduce it, not by demanding more rights, but by mediating the actual problem.

It’s hard to pinpoint where and how this seeding ideology took form, but it’s here now, and that’s what matters. I think that the antidote is straightforward, and thanks to people like Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Dave Rubin, and more, the conversation has begun, and there’s been more than prevalent support for it. Even so, there is more conversation to be had. As with everything, it starts with the individual. While you may be outcast, have the conversation, and keep working towards your own achievement, because achievement at the individual level will lead to a better life for all.


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David- What We Don’t See

I recently took a nine day trip to Italy and it was phenomenal. My family and I spent 4 days in Tuscany, 1 in Orvieto, and 4 days in Rome. We packed in as much sightseeing as we could and saw and experienced tons of art, history, food, and wine. While it was all fantastic, the one thing that stood out and was the most breathtaking to me was Michelangelo’s statue of David.

One of the days we were in Tuscany we took a day trip to Florence where we went to the Duomo, Baptistry, Art Museum, and the Galleria dell’Accademia where David stands. During all of this we had a personal tour guide who was nothing short of fantastic. He was of German and Italian descent and ironically had his Ph.D. in Philosophy, to which we bonded over. It was his words during the tour that have moved me to write this post and that have provided me with some of the insights and facts this post stands on.

The Galleria is filled with some of Michelangelo’s extremely rare unfinished works, however, it is David that immediately catches one’s eye. Crafted in 1501 and standing at 17 feet tall, the sculpture’s level of detail and beauty is nothing short of perfect. While the artistic and aesthetic aspects of the work are truly great, those are not what gives the piece its true meaning, at least in my opinion.

Most know the story in the Bible of David and Goliath. David, a small child and future king of Israel, defeated and killed the ~7 foot tall Philistine warrior, Goliath. With just a simple slingshot and rock, David used his mind and hands to hurl the rock, crushing Goliath’s forehead. It is this character of David that Michelangelo crafted a marble manifestation of.

So what is the significance of David and Goliath? Well, also back in the 1400’s was a philosopher by the name of Giovanni Pico della Mirandola (Pico). Pico believed that with the power of God and pure human intuition, anyone can overcome any obstacle by using their hands and their head. In other words, by working and thinking. Michelangelo took this and put it into David, literally. Look at David’s hands and head. They’re out of proportion and much too big for his body. How fitting is it for Pico’s position to be crafted onto David, one of the purest symbols of overcoming evil and tribulation?

“Whatever seeds each man cultivates will grow to maturity and bear in him their own fruit.”
-Giovanni Pico della Mirandola

But this goes further. It is awesome that Michelangelo incorporated so much thought into his sculpture, but the true value is in what David stands for. David; relaxed, triumphant, and confident, stands for everything that is good. The statue of David is the biggest threat to those who promote oppression and evil, because David proudly symbolizes everything they try to oppress. All of these oppressive cultures; radical Islam, racial supremacy, political subjugation, etc.. all base their agendas on the idea that certain people do not deserve rights because of their race, religion, political association, etc.. The statue of David and the ideals it represents, however, says the exact opposite.

David represents the concept that no matter who you are, where you’re from, or what your background is, you can defeat and overcome any evil with just your hands and your head. And if one remembers this, than one can never be truly defeated. This has never been more relevant than today. We the people who believe in what is good must never forget what we have and the powers of which we posses. After all, nobody can take your morality unless you let them.

 

 

 

Tom Fusillo

Work On Your Work

Whether you realize it or not, you have probably heard people complain about and criticize their job or whatever it is they do. This is not just limited to paid work, but extends to schoolwork, internships, and other tasks. Most humans loathe almost all work and believe they are almost always deserving of a vacation. This is the problem: it is one thing for one to say they need a vacation, but it is completely different for one to truly believe that they need and deserve that break from work. Don’t get me wrong, I’m am certainly not saying that we should work every day until we die. Vacations are great, but it is so important to have the right reasons and understanding behind your motives. I’ve narrowed the list of reasons as to why people feel like they need to opt-out of work down to three:

  1. The system
  2. They’re too good for their job
  3. They’ve done enough

The first reason is one that I talk about a lot with my close friends. It’s the thing we all dread….The system. To me, the system is the fall of the American Dream, monotonous helpless cycle many feel they can’t get out of, and to me the system is the long gray line of American manhood. Growing up we’re taught that where you’re from doesn’t have to be where you’re going. That if, “You work hard, you do the right thing, you clean up.” And this is all true, but for many Americans, this society we live in, this system, does everything it can to make the journey to your goals as difficult as possible. Our society, rather than promoting and nurturing creativity and curiosity, rather than encouraging young people to take risks and see the world, and rather than idolizing values and morals instead of money and objects, has trapped us. This system causes us to make career decisions we don’t want to make, do the same thing every day, become stuck in our personal ideologies, become more closed-minded, and become filled with more hate and less love.

The reality is that our society is becoming more and more like this “system.” However, what but nothing is a man or woman who commits themselves blindly to a system that has no true intentions? If you hate this system and think that the right way rebelling against it is to not participate, you’re probably wrong. Boycotting, rebelling, rioting, using entails doing the opposite of the thing you’re upset with, but in this case, we absolutely can not, should not, stop working. Rather, we need to work harder and dedicate ourselves to putting life and goodness into the work we do. Yes, some industries are nasty and it can be so hard to see anything good come from them, just look at American politics right now. However, the very perceived nature of these industries does not reflect their possibilities. We can not avoid this system by withdrawing ourselves. We are to avoid this system by committing ourselves. Committing ourselves to a new work ethic, a new driving force of creativity, a new heart as a society.

Another popular but subtle reason we hate working is because many people think that they are “too good” for their job. This is ridiculous, this infuriates me, and if you think this you are certainly not too good for your job. This is an absolutely toxic mindset and is a reason behind why millennials are thought to be the worst generation to every be (but that’s a different story). It is possible, and even common for one to run out of challenges and interest at their job, but this in no way is synonymous to them being better than that job. I believe this sense of false confidence and entitlement stems from the idea that people are too concerned with living their life and only smelling the roses rather than building a life. These same people think that once they’re around 30 they’ve found the work and job they’re supposed to do for a lifetime, when in fact there are always new challenges. It should be no surprise that when you commit yourself to a long term routine, you may get complacent. However, being complacent does not and never will mean you’re better than what it is you’re complacent o
ver. Challenge yourself to stop living your life and start building it, as anti-motivational speech esque that may sound.
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Finally, the third reason I have identified as to why many people hate working is that they think they’ve done enough. They think they’ve done their time and the day where they hang up the gloves and kick up their feet on a beach somewhere in the Keys for years to come has finally arrived. Before I dive into this let me be clear: I am not anti-retirement, nor am I against those who retire, and I am not against those who retire early (whatever “early” means). Though I do believe that there is a right time to take your foot off the gas and start collecting retirement benefits, this transition is very personal and differs on a case to case basis. CEO Gary Vaynerchuk believes that we shouldn’t be afraid to start a new phase of our careers because of our age, contrarily, getting older is all the more reason to start that new project, to launch your own company, to take on that extra proposal, etc.. I hink that you should ask yourself a couple of questions before you decide to dig your feet in the sand. Ask yourself if you’ve done all you can? Is there anything left to do?  Can I make things better? Where can my curiosity still take me? Evaluate your purpose and how its changed over the past X number of years.
Don’t just look back, look forward.

It’s true that work, whether its a job or schoolwork, can be tedious and just suck, but that one assignment, that one task, or that one job certainly doesn’t represent them all, and you’d be naive to think that. Rather than giving in, kick it up a notch and challenge yourself. Build your life- and you will create crazy things.

 

Thomas Fusillo

 

 

 

The Airplane Theory

One thing that has always fascinated me are the thoughts that come to mind when I’m on an airplane looking down at the cities and the plains or on the ground looking up at an airplane. While both of these scenarios provoke similar thoughts, they are different. Each possesses its own unique texture. I believe these scenarios are representative of where we are and where we are going.

A few months ago, while I was at work, something happened that happens all the time: a plane about 5 minutes after takeoff from Austin-Bergstrom International Airport caught my eye as it plunged into the white clouds and out of view. Without realizing it, I immediately stopped what I was doing and just stared as the gears of my mind began to churn. The sight of a plane going to some destination that was unknown to me made me think of where I have been, where I am, and where I am going. But it also made me think of the people on board that plane. Who were they, what are their stories, and where are are they going?

As I currently sit on board an eastbound New Jersey Transit train, I am surrounded by people. I will be surrounded by millions more once I arrive in Manhattan, New York, yet we don’t usually look at the people we are (literally) close to. We don’t concern ourselves with the lives of strangers whom we just catch walking past us out of the corners of our eyes. When I look up at a plane however, my head is filled with questions, predictions, and thoughts. From the ground a plane seems miniscule. Its windows the size of buttons and its wings as long as twigs. How crazy something as simple as perspective can be. Chances are, there are over two-hundred people, souls, human lives on board that plane. Each with a different story, each with different pains and triumphs, but all with the same destination. At least for now.

In his poem “The Hollow Men,” T.S. Elliot writes,

The eyes are not here
There are no eyes here
In this valley of dying stars
In this hollow valley
This broken jaw of our lost kingdoms

It seems as if every now and then, when we look straight into someone’s eyes, we see what they’ve seen, feel what they’ve felt, and live what they’ve lived. Looking up at a plane is just a front for this. When you think about it, it makes you think that while some people on that plane may have had a very different past and very different plans going forward, there are also people on that plane that have lived a life similar to yours with goals and ambitions similar to yours. It makes you think that you’re not alone in what you’re trying to do. Most importantly, you realize that what you’re doing has been done before in some capacity.

Life can be much broader once you discover one simple fact: Everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you. And you can change it, you can influence it… Once you learn that, you’ll never be the same again.

-Steve Jobs

 

Now flip the tables. You’re on the plane coming from some place and going to another. The terrain below appears to be sectioned into quadrants. Buildings that are hundreds of feet tall look as though they barely escape the ground of the planet which now seems so distant. Finally, if you’re still in take-off or approach, you see the cars. What a few hours ago were heavy pieces of forged metal moving at top speeds are now comparable to those little red bugs you’ve seen crawling around your back patio.

Now you are going somewhere. But the people down there? They are there. Wherever it is you are flying over, the inhabitants of that land below are in their place. Their lives are happening. They’re going to work, doing homework, watching TV, showering, & sleeping. They’re also worrying, caring, fearing, hating, and loving. For those people, today is just another day. And for that moment, that individual moment, they aren’t going anywhere. You are.

Yes, there are three letters on your boarding pass abbreviating your destination. You know where you’re headed. I, however, posit that you’re not completely sure where you’re going.  I’m sitting on the plane and I look out of the window at the ground, the sky, and the world, and I can only think about how everything I’ve done and everything I’ve worked for is so that I can finally get to that destination. That place I have in my head that I see myself at. But this puzzle that we call life has variables. Things change. Random twists of our fates happen all the time. So who really knows where we’re going?

 

 

After all, we’re only human.

 

 

 

Tom Fusillo

 

Unyielding Hope

It’s three o’clock in the morning and you have work or class at eight. All the while you’re up asking yourself, asking the world, and asking God what the point of going to that class or showing up to work is. All of the sudden things appear to be so distant, so out of touch, and so much more unrealistic then they were just earlier that day. We can ask why this happens, but the most important question to ask is where to go from here? Should we give up, start over, or keep going?

The interesting thing about when people are in the above described situation is that they will almost always continue on the charted course. They’ll end up going to work tomorrow, they’ll go to class, and they’ll keep up with their usual routine. Do they keep going because they’re simply too lazy or believe it is too hard to change their lifestyle? Or is it because deep inside every human being there is almost always piece of hope?

Hope is personal. For some, they may not realize or think that hope has played a big role in their lives, while for others it is all they have. When I was applying to colleges, one of the essays I had to write asked the cliche question, “What is your favorite word and why?” My answer  was hope. I said that my favorite word was hope not just because I had a lot of hope at that time, but also because I wouldn’t have gotten to that point in my life without it. Here I am over two years later holding on to that same piece of hope. It’s that piece of hope that screams in your ear every morning tell you to get up. That voice in your head that makes you stay up an extra few hours to finish the work you need to finish. Hope along with faith is what keeps you going when there’s no earthly reason for you to carry on with your mission.

So why do we keep going? It’s simply a natural human response. We, as humans, are wired to never surrender our goals. We keep going because of that unyielding hope deep in our hearts. It is fair to say that some have more hope than others, but that doesn’t mean that each and every one of us doesn’t have something to fight for. Something to keep pushing forward for. Take a look at what Steve Jobs said in Apple’s Think Different campaign:

“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Maybe we shouldn’t just view hope as a virtue, but also as a challenge. Challenge yourself to take whatever hope you have, and turn it into a physical manifestation through your daily routine and thoughts. Be one of the crazy ones. Because after all, by doing nothing you have everything to lose and nothing to gain. However, by holding on to that hope and just trying to push the human race forward, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

“He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.” -Jim Elliot

 

Thomas Francis Fusillo